That’s how your threesome becomes a great experience!

Have you ever thought about getting intimate with not just one, but two people – at the same time? Well, you’re not alone, threesome fantasies are super exciting! We think so too… the more the merrier, right 

You probably have this hot, sweaty, smooth image of a threesome in your head right now. Truth be told: In reality, it doesn’t always go all that smoothlyPicking the right people, communicating well and contraception are topics that need some consideration beforehand in order to be able to fully enjoy your special shared experience. No worries, we got you.

Here are our best tips to make your (first) Threesome – experience a spicy adventure! 

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1) The right constellation 

Who you would like to have this experience with is entirely up to you (and your chosen partners of course). The important thing to focus on here is a mutual feeling of equality and comfort with each other. This doesn’t just mean that all of you should feel comfortable to express your needs and wishes but, even more crucially, to set personal boundaries.  

For the singles: 

For you, a threesome probably involves less planning and involvement over all. No strings attached, right? As a single the whole world is probably open to you. After all, you don’t have to discuss your adventure with anyone and most likely you’re not hindered by jealousy. The only challenge is to find the right partners who you want to share this experience with – and who really want to share it with you. 
So the question here is: friends or strangers? The answer is entirely up to you and your own preferences. Do exactly what you feel! Take into consideration though, that an experience like this can potentially influence your friendships – both positively as well as negatively. At the same time: What’s the point of playing with fire if it doesn’t burn a little? Friendships can take a lot and after all, your friends are probably the most likely to share a laugh with you, if it turns out to be a slightly strange experience. 

For everyone with a partner: 

Shows heavily featuring teen drama don’t usually provide you with the best advice when it comes to sexual experiences. In this case, however, “Gossip Girl” is an exception to the rule. We believe their tip on threesomes is pretty solid: The third person is always supposed to be a stranger. 

Why? Generally speaking, the same rules apply to singles. You know yourself best and we trust you to make the right decision for yourself. However, in a relationship jealousy tends to play a more significant role. That’s totally normal and doesn’t have to be problematic. Talk about your thoughts and fears beforehand and set clear rules and boundaries. Importantly, agree that nothing is set in stone and you take it as it comes. This means: If one of you isn’t feeling it, at any given time point, you stop. In a relationship you enter this scenario as a team so it’s important to act like one.  

2) The Do’s & Don’ts  

Your first time experimenting with threesomes will probably rather be a trial-and-error process. And that’s perfectly fine. This entire experience is about sharing a special moment together, living your fantasies and not taking yourselves too seriously. Still, it can be incredibly helpful to discuss your Do’s and Don’ts beforehand. Most likely, you don’t know each other’s preferences in detail yet so it’s always a good idea to have a little chat before the action starts. Highlighting again: If one of you isn’t feeling it at any moment, just take a step back. This doesn’t mean it’s a bad experience or you failed or any other negative thoughts that might come up in your head then. It simply means that individual timings can differ, opinions and ideas can change.  

3) Contraception 

An important point that we didn’t want to miss here is contraception. Depending on your individual threesome constellation this can be a tricky topic. With two penises and one vagina, you can protect yourselves well with condoms. If two vaginas (and maybe penetration) are involved, protection already becomes more difficult if you don’t want to constantly change condoms. Hence, it’s always a good idea to get tested before your experience so that you can enjoy a carefree adventure! Psst… you don’t even have to go all the way all the time! Maybe try sex without penetration first?  

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Your threesome fantasies are entirely personal and you can live them just like YOU want to! Pick people who make you feel 100% comfortable and who respect your boundaries. In the end, the first threesome experience is an experiment that’s supposed to be fun. Laughs, lust and intimate moments …all make for a highly satisfying experience! Stay safe, stay flexible, do a lot of talking, what works for one trio may not for another and that’s ok. Feel free to hit the breaks and learn from certain experiences. Listen to your instincts and have fun! Just to round off, and just a thought! 

 

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